same. I like sesame oil and Astro-Glide.
Relax:
My second boy friend introduced me to anal
play when I was 20. The first time I invited him
in to my bed he rather gently put the pad of his
thumb over my anus when he was eating me
out. I was quite startled and momentarily
fearful by the sensation at first. But he did not
try to penetrate me and within a few of minutes
it felt normal. He varied the thumb pressure a
bit from time to time and he moved his thumb
around a bit. I felt good. Then we changed
position and his hands went elsewhere. Looking
back this was the turning point for me. I felt
safe when he touched me back there and
everywhere else.
Explore yourself:
Later that evening I tried touching him in a
similar manner and he responded favorably. My
curiosity about exploring anal sensation further
was activated. Soon I experimented with anal
penetration when I masturbated. Point of
advice: Start small and use lots lube.
Explore each other:
The next step in my discovery process was
reading about prostate massage in some book.
That night in the middle of a restaurant I asked
my boyfriend if he wanted a prostate massage
JOY FEELINGS