time we did it, we used mirrors so that I could
see him behind me-- views I'd never had
before. This was *totally* arousing. I wish we
had taken pictures. Now, I'm scanning the
internet on a regular basis for pictures and
stories of anal sex, and longing for the next
time when we can touch one another in that
manner again!
Explore each other - Sharon, Age 38
What tips can I offer on the subject of anal sex?
First: I think that we as women need to discuss
anal sex beyond and outside of the context of
women being penetrated by men. This context
is too narrow.
Second: To enjoy it you need: lube, patience,
the right lube, to feel safe, self-awareness, more
lube, a willing partner, a patient partner,
communication, knowledge of your partner,
curiosity, and trust.
Lube:
Lubrication is essential when you first
experiment! If you are starting to explore this
aspect of love making it is essential that both
partners become familiar with the sensations of
both giving and receiving this form of loving
touch. By the way: not all lubricants are the
JOY FEELINGS