The most important is clitoral stimulation, I
think if you play with her clit during any kind
of anal play (including anal sex) she WILL
COME REALLY REALLY HARD -- like
fireworks will go off an violins will play. This
will make her want it again. There's my two
cents.
Dos and Don'ts - mjcat, Ohio
What you need to get started:
Patience, lots of lube (I recommend K-Y,
it's what the doc uses lol), and intimate
knowledge of your partner!
Dos:
Do talk about it a lot!
Do be gentle in manner and action. Let her
tell you how she would like it.
Do experiment slowly with fingers and
small toys, and remember lots and lots of
lube!!!
Don'ts:
JOY FEELINGS
Don't be pushy.
Don't be disappointed if the first few times
it doesn't end up in the end the way you
wanted it.