JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 79
7 Oral Sex Tips GUARANTEED To
Rock Her Ever-Loving World
Here are 7 tips to help you
quickly become an oral expert:
Tip #1: Spread the love. She
loves it when you focus your
attention on the clit. However, if
you focus all your attention on
one spot, it gets super sensitive
bordering on painful. Mix it up!
Use your entire tongue. Make it
flat. Make it pointy. Make it soft.
Make it rigid. The clitoris has
8,000 nerve endings, and you can
stimulate them all!
Tip #2: Start off slow. This is
not fast food. This is a gourmet
restaurant and she wants you to
savor every moment. Kiss and
nibble her inner thighs, use your
lips or your breath on her labia.
She feels every little nuance, and
it all feels very, VERY good.
Tip #3: Skip the porn
tricks. Guys, she is a regular,
everyday woman. She is NOT a
porn star. Plus, she can tell when
you’re using Howard Stern’s
alphabet technique (I KNOW
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you can be more creative than
that!). Rather than trying
something you saw on the boob
tube, keep it simple. Try swirling
your tongue around her clitoris in
small circles, clockwise and then
counter-clockwise. You’ll find
the right spot, guaranteed.
Tip #4: Forget the game
plan. If you come to the
bedroom with a super specific
end goal, say giving her a
squirting orgasm, it can be a
turn-off. Why? Because the
moment it becomes goal-oriented
rather than pleasure-oriented, she
loses interest. Plus, she’ll feel
like something is wrong with her
if you try really hard and she just
can’t get there. If you want her to
be comfortable with squirting, try
not to focus on it too much. She
wants to get lost in the moment,
not feel like you are trying to
turn her into your favorite
webcam girl.
Tip #5: Remember the golden
rule. Think of all of the things
you love when she goes down on
you. Do you love gentle sucking?
Nibbling? Light teeth? Deep
suction? Great – maybe she does
too! GENTLY try those
techniques on her clitoris. After