JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 78

surrender to the masculine.

Most intelligent men who are
secure in themselves love the
quality of intelligence in a
woman – they want someone
who is their intellectual equal,
not some “dumb blonde”.
But your intelligence must be
used in a cooperative way (eg. to
help achieve common goals),
rather than competitively (eg. to
win arguments and prove him
wrong).

Notice though that I never
mentioned weakness, which is
neither feminine, nor attractive to
men. Men are most attracted to
women who are their equal in
every respect (other than physical
strength), but who will let them
be the man and lead.
5. Be a Happy, Fun Person
Men love women who are happy,
fun and smile a lot. These things
lift them up and add significant
value to their lives.
On the other hand, men don’t
want to be around unhappy,
depressed, tense, angry and
moody women.
6. Be Intelligent

7. Be Real
Let go of the false persona that
you are putting on to protect
yourself and instead show the
real you!
I am not saying that you have to
wear your heart on your sleeve or
tell everyone your deepest and
darkest secrets.
What I am telling you though is
to remove the social mask that
you put on around people who
you want to impress – you know
what I mean. They can tell that
you are not being authentic with
them, and this makes you appear
less trustable, especially to men.