JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 76

Your opinion of yourself comes
through very clearly to every
person that you interact with
through your facial expressions,
your body language, how you
move, your emotions, and in the
energy that you convey
generally.
Men want to be around women
who like themselves and feel
secure. They don’t want to be
around women who are painfully
shy, extremely self-conscious,
and those who put themselves
down all the time and have to be
constantly reassured etc.
I can tell you that averagelooking women who like
themselves can appear very

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attractive to a man, while very
good-looking women who don’t
like themselves can appear very
unattractive.
Liking yourself is a decision that
you can make at any time. It does
not need to depend on an ideal
set of circumstances (eg. having
the perfect body). It comes from
being able to focus on your good
points instead of your bad points,
and also from living consistently
with your beliefs and values.