JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 75

However, this is noexcuse to be
lazy and not take care of
yourself.
What you do need to do is
become the best looking “you”
that you can be. And while
having natural good looks may
be a slight advantage, other
factors which I am about to
mention are far more important
than physical beauty.
A few suggestions that I have
are: grow your hair to at least
shoulder length hair (and ideally
longer) if you can (most men
prefer this to shorter hair – which
appears more masculine); don’t
wear too much make-up (this
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makes you appear fake and look
like you’re trying to hide
something); work out at the gym
(both weights and cardio) to keep
yourself toned; and dress
attractively, but not “sexy”
(otherwise men will have trouble
seeing you as anything other than
a piece of meat).
2. Like Who You Are (ie. Have
High Self-esteem)
It is extremely important that you
like the person who you are,
despite any shortcomings that
you may have (everyone has
some).