JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 72
So exactly what do men
find attractive in women? Come
with me. And don’t forget your
notebook.
Sense of Humor: Humor is
attractive to both sexes. Yet it
sends different signals. Women
like men who make them laugh;
men like women who laugh at
their jokes. You know why
humor is sexy? Funny people are
intelligent, and intelligence is
sexy. So ladies, chuckling once
in a while can make you
attractive. Dude, throwing in a
joke is a plus.
Hard to get: Ladies, take this to
the bank: being too available
turns off a guy. Generally, men
know who requires a little effort,
and who is available on short
notice. Trust me there is nothing
sexy about being within his
reach. Dudes love and respect the
women they find hard to get. Yet
ladies need to tread this ground
carefully to avoid sending the
wrong signal.
My take: inasmuch as you play
hard to get the best way to play
the game is affirming your
enthusiasm about him- that is, if
you like him already. Dump that
flat ‘no’ for a seductive one.
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Trust me, if the juice is worth the
squeeze he will keep squeezing
whether or not the game falls
within the realm of moral fibre.
Attractive personality: So your
mate told you throwing tantrums
is admirable? Unlearn that. Bad
temper almost never earns you
attention. Well, unless your goal
is to date a cop – in a cell. Either
way it stinks, but if you are
persuasive enough, we can buy
the idea of a bad PMS day. And
be easy to get along with; shed
that feeling of self-importance.
The world can revolve without
you, girl. Expendable. We all are
expendable in some way.
There is nothing sexy about
narcissistic or bipolar personality
disorder. No matter how sexy
your exterior is, you will lose
men to chicks with lovable
interior. At the end of the day
conscientiousness and altruism
will attract more men than the
bumpy chest.
Femininity: The long and short
of this is embracing what you
are: a woman. While it is ok to
pull masculine stunts in the
corporate world, femininity wins