JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE November issue 2015 | Page 71

• Enjoy doing those things you
love independently, then come
home missing him! This last tip
is the most practical and when
you actually follow it and
commit to it in your relationship,
it can offer the most rewards!
Here’s the thing—most guys
have experienced a girlfriend or
spouse (I’m not pointing fingers
here) tell them what they can’t
do.
“You can’t go play golf today, I
need help with household stuff,”
or “You can’t go out with your
buddies tonight, because I
thought you would want to come
home to me. I made special plans
for dinner and rented that movie
you love.”
The thing is, whether you are a
little bit guilty of making him
feel guilty when he wants some
time away, or you’ve completely
ditched out on your friends for
the man in your life, it’s not
pretty.
And when you ignore your life
that existed before he came along
(and don’t give him breathing
room with his buddies from time
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to time) your entire relationship
can cause the both of you to feel
like you’re suffocating.
Everyone needs alone time—and
goes just like the saying:
“Absence makes the heart grow
fonder.” It’s true, and when it
comes to your relationship,
nothing will make him want to
come home than the feeling that
he’s free to go off, drink a beer
or two with his buddies and have
the trust from you that it’s totally
ok for him to do so—no guilt trip
attached.

Our deepest fear is not that we
are inadequate. Our deepest fear
is that we are powerful beyond
measure. It is our light, not our
darkness, that frightens us most –
Marianne Williamson
If you are a woman, chances are
there are inner powers that you
are not tapping to the maximum.
You are attractive beyond
measure, and the seductive
power lies in you - within you waiting for you to realize, to
strike.