wedding, many men are also
deterred from proposing
because they're worried that
they'll never be able to afford
an expensive 400 person
wedding, or because they
don't want to be roped in to
the wedding-planning hoopla.
Well, if you planned on just
having a small wedding in
the park with 50 of your
closest friends and family and
having a casual dress code,
you should find a way to
mention this too.
-- as the woman who will be
his lifelong partner and
potentially the mother of his
children. So, show him that
you'd make a great wife as
well as a fun girlfriend. Let
him see that you're
independent and careeroriented while also knowing
how to take care of him when
he's sick, how to tastefully
decorate your home, and how
to cook a healthy meal -nothing fancy required.
Though this shouldn't be
a factor in a man's
decision to marry you
for life, it does deter
men from wanting to get
the ball rolling on the
whole marriage thing.
Can you blame them?
Let him see you as "wife
material." Though he may
think you're a ton of fun or a
sex kitten, you should also let
him see you as wife material
If you want him to see
you as a wife, then your
relationship should be
positive most of the
time. If you spend most
of your time fighting or
crying about your
insecurities, he won't
think you're ready for
marriage.
Let him see that you
have your act together
on your own and that
you're ready to move
towards marriage. If he
thinks that your life