JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE Feb.2015 | Page 18

at some point, most men want to have that soul-mate connection. The Art of the Ultimatum willing to risk losing you? (Note: If the answer is yes, you don't want him anyway.) Three times when it might pay to nudge him a bit He's Chronically Indecisive He Has a Legit Excuse If you really think the two of you click but he's stalling because he's temporarily focused on something else, like finishing grad school, give him a firm deadline (e.g., till he reaches his goal). He Needs to Rethink His Priorities Say he's a jock and you hate sports, but he wishes you had that in common. Is it so important