whether it's climbing the
corporate ladder or working
toward finishing medical
school, he just won't have
anything left to give to a
partner, both physically and
emotionally. So he puts
romance on the back burner.
Now that's not to say he will
never want to pop the
question. If your man is
floundering careerwise or
struggling to make ends
meet, it might be in your
interest to bide your time and
wait for him to become
ready. Of course, it depends
on the dynamic between the
two of you. But if he seems
fully engaged in the
relationship, clearly states
that he wants to get married
after he accomplishes
whatever goal he has been
working on, and his time
frame is reasonable, your
patience could eventually pay
off.
COMMITMENT FACTOR
#5
He's Tired of Playing
Around
While there's no specific age
at which men are ready to
marry (nor do they all mature
at the same rate), after a
while, going from one
superficial relationship to
another begins to lose its
allure, and they crave a
deeper kind of bond with
someone.
This more intimate mind-set
may be expedited if all the
guy's friends are starting to
settle down. For one thing, it
becomes harder for him to
find buddies to party with.
But more important, with
everyone around him getting
more serious about their
relationships, he's more likely
to reflect on what he wants in
life. Though bachelorhood
can be fun and exciting, it's
often emotionally
unfulfilling. And ultimately,