Jewish Life Digital Edition October 2015 | Page 43

the inner journey never really stops. That is why our brains keep changing right through life. After much searching, I came to the insight that the inner journey is more fun, the landscapes of the mind more interesting, that intrapersonal intelligence (as understood by Howard Gardner, a Harvard University professor best known for his theory of multiple intelligences) is the highest form of wisdom. Most importantly, the inner journey is the accumulation of a latticework of diverse mental models, each coalescing to form a dynamic mind-set. The mind-set of each of us is critical to our interpretation of the stream of situations that affect our responses, our behaviour. It’s the inner journey where all human change takes place and it can be a difficult process. My search continued for a mental model that best describes change. After a few detours and dead ends, I found it in the works of Manfred Kets DeVries, a Hollander working at INSEAD, a business school on the outskirts of Paris. Kets De Vries is an interesting man as he has a doctorate in business administration and trained as a psychoanalyst in Canada for six years. He understands the dynamics of both the business world and the inner world of people, and works on changing culture in global Fortune 500 companies. In his book, The Leadership Mystique, he describes five stages to transformational change. Firstly, there needs to be an emotional response that causes dissonance, an uncomfortable feeling and thought process. Knowledge is power, but knowledge does not change. You can know all about the dangers of smoking cigarettes, but the habit continues nonetheless. Fear of a horrible death and gruesome pictures of cancer of the mouth are far more persuasive. The second stage is for a crisis to occur or a tipping point to be reached. Coughing up blood or an ominous sign on a chest X-ray pushes some to stop smoking. A frustrated spouse leaving home, a final warning at work, and self-destructive thinking in a depressed person are common examples of crisis or tipping point. Some institutions and companies can be so fixed in mind-set that a really big crisis needs to play out. But often it’s too late by then. Thirdly, a clear, sincere public