Jewish Life Digital Edition November 2014 | Page 84

BACKPAGE INSPIRATION Butterfly KISSES The possibilities for transformation are achievable BY CHANDREA SEREBRO A 80 JEWISH LIFE ISSUE 79 which to think about, understand and process difficult life circumstances and trauma in ways that they can relate to culturally, and so she went out to create it. Inspired by the tremendous resilience and strength displayed by children once they are given this space, Shalya founded the project to incorporate the arts into therapy. “Children may not have the words to describe their feelings, or, due to differences in demographic or cultural backgrounds, they cannot verbalise them. ‘Talking therapies’ are therefore not always the most useful way of helping them story their experiences.” The Uvemvane Project pioneers the use of creative expressive arts in therapy in South Africa, as a transcultural way for children to make use of dance, movement, art, music, drama and ritual storytelling to express and process their thoughts, feelings and life experiences. “It is amazing to see what can come out of a therapy session that is nondirective, which uses different ways and materials to evoke the children’s feelings. Sometimes, it’s a musical instrument that a child picks up and the session takes flight from there. Puppets sitting as part of the group serve to externalise the children’s problems. Crayons and paper used to draw different stories combined into a fictional narrative, which then becomes a true representation of their real stories, can be a powerful way to empower the children into processing their emotions and thoughts.” Through this, they offer therapeutic services to those who do not receive adequate support, as well as skills development and training to professionals, to help them navigate difficult life circumstances. The Uvemvane Project has partnered with CHOC and Lefika la Phodiso to help children and their families overcome various traumas associated with illness. Shalya named her project ‘Uvemvane’ as it is the Zulu word for butterfly. Born out of the caterpillar in the chrysalis, butterflies symbolise rebirth, regeneration, change and even happiness, explains Shalya. The Uvemvane Project represents the possibilities she envisages for transformation, change and hope in the spirit of those who have experienced great adversity. JL PHOTOGRAPH: SUPPLIED THEY OFFER THERAPEUTIC SERVICES TO THOSE WHO DO NOT RECEIVE ADEQUATE SUPPORT, AS WELL AS SKILLS DEVELOPMENT AND TRAINING TO PROFESSIONALS, TO HELP THEM NAVIGATE DIFFICULT LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES. S PARENTS, WE CAN SIT AND WATCH OUR children interact with the world for hours. It brings us joy and nachas at seeing their growing personalities, and it helps us get to know them and understand them better. For most of us, we use it as a way of mentally recording our children’s development, but for Shalya Hirschson, it is so much more. As a researcher and educational psychologist, Shalya’s professional development, peppered with the more personal experience of seeing her kids and their own experiences, culminated in the need to do more than just understand children’s experiences of their world. She needed to do something to apply the principles learned in her professional journey in a real-life, practical and supportive way to those whose experiences are not all wonder and joy. When Shalya had to stop working in order to study for her master’s degree, it was a new experience. She had been working since matric, and now, to pursue her professional dream, the only thing standing in her way was funding for her studies. Unable to get bursaries from the institutions themselves, Shalya was finally helped by a lone man from a large company who had her CV land on his desk. He helped fund her medical aid, and it kick-started a prof \