Jewish Life Digital Edition July 2015 | Page 29

SPONSORED FEATURE ON A SERIOUS NOTE… from home, and in pain, they see clearly what is made conspicuous by its absence. I BY MICHAEL SIEFF, CHEV GROUP CEO ONE OF A KIND PHOTOGRAPHS: SUPPLIED Calling something ‘one of a kind’ is possibly the highest praise one can offer. This great accolade signifies originality and authenticity and suggests qualities that are both rare and genuine. I believe our community is one of a kind for having created a Chevrah Kadisha that reflects universal uniqueness in not one, but so many, ways. I recognise, with admiration and humility, the calibre of a community that had the insight, foresight and compassion to establish this inspired structure from the get-go, 127 years ago, and the will to sustain and expand it to become what we are blessed to have today. One of a kind vision and purpose: On a trip to Israel, I was walking with my young son through the streets of Jerusalem where, sadly, there are so many people asking for tzedakah. He was troubled by what he saw and turned to me and said, “They should have a Chevrah Kadisha here.” We take our commitment to keep the streets of Gauteng free of Jewish beggars very seriously, and go to great lengths to provide for each individual according to his or her need. No Jew should be left destitute with nowhere to turn for help. Our goal is always focused on rehabilitation at every level and reunification of families where children are concerned. Our policy is that those who can afford to pay for Chev services, like accommodation and burial, are expected to do so. Those who are destitute are cared for anyway – with dignity and the best we can offer. One of a kind address: From people who have been helped to those who help others through the Chev services, I have often heard it said that, “there is nothing like the Chev anywhere else in the world”. And it’s true. The Chev is a one-stop address for any Jew in need of any kind of help. Think for a moment, as I often do, what it means for a community to offer a single door through which a vast range of help is available. Whatever kind of assistance is needed is certain to be in there somewhere, through that single entrance, at that one address. Maybe, G-d forbid, the need is for our burial services, or perhaps accommodation in any of our facilities – aged, mental health or intellectual disability. Perhaps the person is in search of financial assistance, protected employment or care for a parent suffering with dementia. How about someone facing depression, divorce or addiction? Through that one door you’ll find experienced counsellors, support groups, guidance and hope. Everyone knows that if you’re in trouble, you come to the Chev. And if you are able to help those in trouble, you come to the Chev too – to give. The thing is, you come to the Chev because there is one address, and everyone knows it. That’s why, when South Africans are away One of a kind burial services: Do you know that ours is the only Chevrah Kadisha in the world that takes responsibility for the living as well as the departed? Every other Chevrah Kadisha (literally, holy society) confines its efforts to dealing with the departed, but 85% of our work focuses on caring for the living. That alone makes us unique, but there’s more. Every Jew in Johannesburg is buried in exactly the same way, from paupers to princes and everyone in between. What’s important is that every funeral is conducted according to halacha, with the identical coffin and tahara. We never demand payment upfront before a funeral, as is the practice in most countries. For us, accustomed to higher standards of kindness and consideration at a difficult and painful time, this is unthinkable. First, we do what must be done with equal dignity fo ȁ