Donna Winters: Relationship with work colleagues - A
few weeks after my diagnosis of endometriosis, a
gentleman who worked in my department told me he
was sorry to hear of my problem, and invited me into his
cubicle for conversation. Even though my husband and I
had declined treatment and decided to remain childless,
this man took it upon himself to argue for a different
approach. He told me we would regret our decision ten
years down the road and that it was our duty to raise
children.
Donna Winters
As I listened politely, I thought, “This is none of his
business.” I could have argued my position, but what
was the point? I had to work in the same room as this
fellow every day, and smooth working relationships
were far more important to me than making my point.
From that day on, nothing more was said on the topic
and my relationship with him remained cordial for all of
my years with the company. My goal at work was always
to keep relationships with others as smooth as possible,
even if I had to bite my tongue on very sensitive,
controversial, or private issues. Harmony was the best
policy, even at a personal, emotional price.
Julie Arduini: Relationship with her husband -
When it comes to her husband, I think transparent and
consistent communication is key. We were newlyweds,
still trying to get to know each other. We didn’t want to
disappoint each other, so a lot on my end was left
unsaid.
Julie Arduini
www.juliearduini.com
I wish I’d spoken up more so he could know how I was
feeling and what my needs were. He tried, but I didn’t
give a lot of direction, so we both ended up
disappointed. Infertility is not a journey any woman
should take alone.
Don’t be afraid to share openly with your husband.
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