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SEX & Relationship
New Year’s Sexual Resolutions
How many New Year’s resolution lists include something about sex? It’s
hard to say since publicly we don’t talk about it much. That might be be-
cause sex is seen as less important than other things we make resolutions
about, like our health (as if sex and heath were separate!). Or maybe we
think of our sex lives as things that aren’t possible to change without also
changing our relationships (getting a partner, dropping a spouse, finding a
new one, etc…).
Maybe it’s because we don’t know where to begin.
Whatever the reason, if you’re making resolutions for yourself and haven’t
thought about sex yet, I want to offer a grab bag of sexual resolutions flexi-
ble enough to fit anyone. Maybe you’ll add one to your list, or maybe one of
these will inspire you to come up with one of your own. Either way, spend-
ing a little time now and throughout the year attending to your sexuality is an
act I can promise will you give back far more than a gym membership (not
that there’s anything wrong with the gym).
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