It's a Boy, Girl Thing! | Page 17

Now we would like to focus on the attendance of gender stereotypes in the mass media, which nowadays has a great power and reaches large audiences. Mass media do not only gives people information and entertainment, but, according to a Canadian communication theorist, it also affects people’s lives by shaping their opinions, attitudes and beliefs. It controls social life by invisibly transferring the dominant authoritarian ideology. In the case of gender roles, the societies have established the hegemony of males by institutionalizing of male control over women. That’s right folks, people still do that! As we mentioned above, men have been perceived as the head of the household and women were housewives. Nowadays, the differences between male and female roles are smaller, however mass media still continues traditional gender stereotypes. By manipulating the message, media can create a certain image of reality, which is true to the policy of the dominant group. As a result, the reflection of a real world is incomplete and distorted. Although people are aware of the unequal representation of certain social groups in mass media, it is hard to remain detached and insensitive to its influence. Moreover, women are more often presented in commercials, because they are seen as responsible for making everyday purchases in commercials with cosmetics and domestic products and portrayed in the home environment. Unlike men, who generally advertise cars, cigarettes, business products or investments and are shown outdoors. Thus we can clearly see what is expected from us from a simple product commercial. And the ugly part is that advertising companies do on purpose for the profit! 17 One example for gender stereotypes can be a YouTube viral video that circulates online, in which 2 boys and one girl are doing a social experiment consisting in domestic abuse performed in public. In the first part of the video the girl is being “abused” by one of the guys and in the second part, the boy is being maltreated by the girl. The audience’s reaction raised some questions. For the first part, people walking by, stopped, intervened between the couple, and some even tried to punch the man for beating her in public. The interesting thing is that, in the last part, for the woman beating the man, nobody interrupted or even stopped whatsoever, they just kept walking and (the sad truth!) they started making fun of the man and calling him names. The moral of this video is that we are so focused on feminist equality that we forget sometimes what equality really means, making us conscious that we need to centre on both genders. Another example of gender stereotyping is a YouTube video spreading the awareness of rape of women. It is said that the rape of women is their own fault: women shouldn’t wear short skirts. They shouldn’t