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I had asked her to purchase and arrange for us. It was soooo beautiful!!! I loved it1 Everything from my dress to the church set up and the recep- tion was a work of love from our families. My dad and uncle Ping designed and created a giant clam- shell covered in satin material that was to be our table for reception. That is one memory to cher- ish. They argued while designing it. They argued while building it. I loved it! Being raised in a loving family and guided all my growing years led me to that day is an awesome experience. My hubby comes from a very differ- ent background but has fit in nicely and everyone loves him and enjoys his company. HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY HONEY & CHEERS TO YOU & 25 YEARS! Our family has also been a huge support during our hardest days… being sick and hospitalized. I had multiple strokes at the same time in 2012 even going into a coma and Dean had 3 heart attacks the year after requiring 4 bypasses which he did get with the loving help of our Goddaughter, Nik- ki. I credit our marriage & relationship “success” to: My husband, Henry DEAN, being patient, wise, loving, and so very supportive during all our years together, especially during my crazy days and “adventures”! Best of all he will not budge even if I’m chasing him away. My parents who were role models of making things work and trying always no matter what stumbling blocks come your way. My aunts & uncles who have also stood the test of time with their marriages, my siblings and many cousins for their support and love through the years. We are blessed!! 16