IslanderView Digital Magazine FEBRUARY 2018 | Page 10

ISLANDERVIEW IV: How has being an islander positively impacted how you live your life today? Couple: Lauren: I am extremely proud to be an islander. Having traveled to different parts of the world, I have become so appreciative of the way I was raised. Having respect for others, being compassionate, and doing what’s right for the good of the people is just a part of who we are as islanders. No matter how hard it might get living on the mainland, never forget what you were taught. IV: How has being an islander positively impacted your partnership/marriage? Couple: Lauren: Growing up, there were so many couples to look to as an example to what marriage should be. My grand- parents taught me that married couples respect one an- other as a person. God, your spouse, your children, and your family come first. When you treat them with re- spect and love one another, then everything will fall in- to place. HOW DID YOU MEET? Couple: We met in Hawaii. We worked and traveled togeth- er for about a year before anyone spoke to another. IV: How did you know your spouse/partner was the “right” one? Couple: I don’t think we have enough space on the magazine to talk about all the reasons why I knew he was the one. But if I were to describe one, it would be that he always knew what I wanted and what I needed before I could even ask. He was always there for me in my time of need. When my grandfather had passed away, he was in Hawaii and I was in Georgia. While I waited for three days to get my leave approved to go home, he had al- ready jumped on a flight to meet with my mom back home. He had never been to Guam or met my family and yet he still went to help with the rosaries and daily