Island Life Magazine Ltd August/September 2014 | Page 11

INTERVIEW Born in Donaghadee, County Down in 1942, Sally's great, great aunt is Mrs Isabella Beeton, who wrote and compiled the best-seller ‘Household Management’. When it was first published it sold more copies than any other book, apart from the Bible. Her great, great Grandfather, Samuel Smiles was another well-known Victorian author. Sally’s parent's moved to Cheshire where her father, Neville Ford, worked for a paper company. When her mother, Patricia became an MP the family moved to London. Sally's education continued at Heathfield School, Ascot. She smiled: “We didn’t learn much, apart from how to play tennis, sew, and have fun. My mother used to say ‘no one is likely to employ you, so you better find a nice husband’. So I was on the look-out for a kind husband from the moment I left school and managed to hook the best!” Sally went to work at Conservative Central Office for the then Chairman, Sir Edward du Cann. While she was there she met her husband-to-be Michael Grylls who served as the Conservative MP for Chertsey, later to become North West Surrey, for 29 years. “I think Mickey started dating me because I was willing to go out 'canvassing' with him in Fulham where he was the then Conservative candidate! I was 22 when we got married, but before I went off to work and travel in the United States. I had a marvellous time, and when I returned I was ready to settle down.” She explained: “My grandfather, Sir Walter Smiles, was drowned in 1953 in the Princess Victoria disaster. The Stranraer to Larne car ferry sank with no survivors. It went down within sight of the family home. It was terrible for my grandmother. My grandfather was MP for North Down. My mother, Patsie, then succeeded him as MP in the subsequent by-election. “My father and my grandmother looked after me and my sister Mary Rose while our mum commuted between Parliament and N. Ireland. It was an unsettling time for us and my parents sadly divorced. My mother didn’t stand again for Parliament at the next General Election. Instead, she met and married my step-father, Sir Nigel Fisher, who was MP for Surbiton, Surrey. Michael and Sally's daughter, Lara was born shortly after they were married. Then after eight years of miscarriages Sally made the decision to take to her bed for nine months to better ensure the safe arrival of a second child. She said: “The result was Bear so it was worth putting my feet up for so long! Fortunately I love my bed!" Bear was born Edward, but was nicknamed Bear by Lara at an early age. Sally laughed: “Because Bear was a lot younger than his sister, he tried so hard to keep up with her. She and her friends were always daring him to do outrageous things. I remember once when he was a toddler finding him tucking into a raw rasher of bacon which one of Lara’s friends had dared him to eat!” Lara later started her own successful public relations business. She sold her share in the company after she got married to James Fawcett and had their three children, Mungo, Bevan and Tallulah. However Lara bought back the company last year. Bear was born in London, went to schools on the mainland, and married Shara Cannings-Knight. They have three sons, Jesse, Marmaduke and Huckleberry. Sally continued: “My family come to the Island whenever they can, but all have very busy lives. When he is not filming abroad, Bear spends much time visiting scout boot-camps. It is a very great privilege for him to have been selected as Chief Scout. It is a position that is nominated by the scouts themselves from all over the world and then they elect their Chief. Bear takes this role very seriously. There are 42,000 young people hoping to become a scout and Bear is focussed on encouraging young adults to give up a bit of their leisure time to come forward as leaders.” Sally added: “I don’t think Bear had any real designs on becoming a scout when he was young. He was an enthusiast Beaver and Lara became a Brownie because at the time it was the fun thing for children to do.” Sailing brought Michael and Sally to the Island. Six members of the House of Commons Yacht Club, including Sir Michael, bought a share in a 'Daring' called ‘Division Belle’. Sally recalls: “They were delightful owners but not all were very expert sailors. One or two of them www.visitilife.com 11