Island Life Magazine Ltd August/September 2011 | Page 38

INTERVIEW Island MP: my greatest battle Andrew Turner and partner Carole Dennett talk exclusively to Peter White Andrew Turner’s life changed forever on December 8, 2006, even though he has little recollection of it. However, that day is permanently etched in the mind of Andrew’s long-time partner Carole Dennett, the woman the Island’s MP calls his ‘rock’. Andrew was guest speaker at a Conservative Club ladies’ lunch in Shanklin, and towards the end of his short speech he tried to crack a joke that no one understood. Then he had difficulty answering a question so decided to leave the gathering to try to clear his head. Upon his return he fell over, and within minutes some of those around him realised what was happening, although Carole openly admits she didn’t have a clue. Andrew was rushed to St Mary’s Hospital having suffered a massive stroke. For an agonising 24 hours Carole genuinely thought her partner was going to die. Thankfully he pulled through to begin a long, painful and complicated recovery that is still continuing, but has enabled him to recently complete 10 years as the Island’s voice in the House of Commons. For the first time since that fateful day nearly five years ago, Andrew and Carole sat together in their home in Newport to recount to me the setbacks and achievements that have taken place since. Andrew knows he is not the first, and will not be the last to be disabled by such a condition. It is known as expressive aphasia, which basically means his brain works the same as it always did, but the problem is sometimes converting his thoughts into speech. But as a high profile figure constantly in the public eye his and Carole’s story can serve as an inspiration to anyone who has undergone, or may undergo similar traumas. During our interview back stairs of the club. When I came back in I fell over – and that’s it, I cannot remember anything else about that day.” Carole takes up the story: “It sounded like Andrew was a bit drunk, he was slurring his words but I knew he hadn’t been drinking. He slumped down but I had no idea what was happening, and didn’t know what to do. Then someone asked ‘did he have the crab starter, because crab always makes me feel like that’!” That comment brought spontane ous laughter in their home – it seemed it was the first time Andrew had ever heard that that little piece of the comedy-drama. The ambulance arrived at the Conservative Club within minutes and Andrew was rushed to hospital, Carole remembers: “He was holding my hand but not making any sense, and it was the ambulance staff that told me he had probably had a stroke.” Andrew remembers nothing else for about two days, but for Carole the nightmare was about to get worse. During a critical 24-hour period, she recalls: “I was shown the scan that was taken and there was this big bleed in his head, and the hospital staff told me to phone his family and tell them to come, because there was nothing they could do. I wanted answers, but they told me they just didn’t know whether 'I fell over and that's it. I cannot remember anything else about that day.' 38 www.visitislandlife.com there were hoots of laughter and tears of emotion from this dedicated couple, who have shared each other’s lives for the last 19 years. They held hands at times, hugged each other, and when his hazy memories became difficult for Andrew to talk about, his ‘rock’ was there to kiss him gently on the head and ease him through. In my many years of conducting interviews this was undoubtedly one of the most emotive. Andrew recalls: “During the lunch one of my answers to a question didn’t make sense, but perhaps that was not unusual! Then I sat down, but felt quite tired, so went and sat on the