International Lifestyle Magazine Jan 2013 - Page 21

1 Cheating is a clear indication that a relationship is unhealthy. Most importantly it destroys the trust between 2 people, therefore, once it has happened it’s very hard to forgive and continue with the relationship after this. It’s a very painful experience and can cause emotions such as hurt, loss, sadness and anger .It can also make the person who has been cheating feel bad about themselves, lower their self esteem and produce strong feelings of guilt. All of these emotions need to be acknowledged and dealt with if you are to stay together, rebuild the trust and make it work. 2 One of the main reasons why people cheat in relationships is that there is a mismatch between what one of the partners wants and what the other partner can provide. If there is a mismatch in expec Ρ…Ρ₯½ΈΡ‘•ΈΡ‘₯́…ΈΑΥЁΑΙ•ΝΝΥΙ”½Έ‰½Ρ Ν₯‘•Μ±•…‘₯ΉœΡΌ•Ν…Α₯Ν΄Ω₯„‘•…Ρ₯ΉœΈ½»ŠeЁΑΥЁչɕ…±₯ΝΡ₯Œ•αΑ•Ρ…Ρ₯½ΉΜ½Έ•… ½Ρ‘•ΘΈ€Μ$Ή½Ρ‘•ΘΙ•…Ν½Έέ‘δΑ•½Α±”‘•…Ё₯́ё…Ёё•δ‘½»ŠeЁΑΙ₯½Ι₯Ρ₯Ν”Ρ‘•₯ȁɕ±…Ρ₯½ΉΝ‘₯ΐ…ΉΑΥЁ•Ή½Υ •™™½ΙЁ₯ΉΡΌ₯ΠΈ1½ΉœΡ•Ι΄Ι•±…Ρ₯½ΉΝ‘₯Ά‘ΌΉ••Ρ₯΅”°•Ή•Ιδ…Ή™½ΥΜΈQ‘•δ‘½»ŠeЁ©ΥΝЁ‘…ΑΑ•Έ½ΈΡ‘•₯ȁ½έΈΈe½ΤΉ••ΡΌ‰”Ι•…±₯ΝΡ₯Œ…‰½ΥЁё”…΅½ΥΉΠ½˜Ρ₯΅”ε½Τ‘•‘₯…Ρ”ΡΌ•… ½Ρ‘•ΘΈ€Π$ …½΅΅ΥΉ₯…Ρ₯½Έ‰•Ρέ••ΈΑ…ΙΡΉ•Ί…Έ…±ΝΌ±•…ΡΌ‘•…Ρ₯Ήœ₯ΈΙ•±…Ρ₯½ΉΝ‘₯ΑΜΈ%˜Ν½΅•½Ή”™••±ΜΡ‘…Ёё•δ…ΉΠΡ…±¬…‰½ΥЁё•₯ȁɕ…°™••±₯ΉΜ…ΉΡ‘…Ёё•δ…Ι”Ή½Π‰•₯Ήœ‘•…ɐ½Θ΅₯ΝΥΉ‘•ΙΝΡ½½Ρ‘•ΈΡ‘₯́…Έ±•…ΡΌ™••±₯ΉΜ½˜ΥΉ‘…ΑΑ₯Ή•ΝΜ()ΝΌέ₯±°™Υ•°Ρ‘”Υɝ”ΡΌ™₯Ή„΅½Ι”Νε΅Α…Ρ‘•Ρ₯Œ½ΘΥΉ‘•ΙΝΡ…Ή‘₯Ήœ•…ΘΈ%ӊé₯΅Α½ΙΡ…ΉΠ™½Θ‰½Ρ ½˜ε½ΤΡΌ±•…ΙΈ‘½άΡΌ½΅΅ΥΉ₯…Ρ”έ₯Ρ ½Ή”…Ή½Ρ‘•Θ•™™•Ρ₯Ω•±δΈ€Τ$%˜ε½Τ‘…Ω”‘½Ή”Ρ‘”‘•…Ρ₯Ήœ½Θε½Τ‘…Ω”‰••Έ‘•…Ρ•½Έ₯ӊé₯΅Α½ΙΡ…ΉΠΡ‘…Ёё•Ι”₯́…Έ•αΑ±…Ή…Ρ₯½Έ₯Ω•ΈΈ%˜ε½Τ…Ι”Ρ‘”‘•…ѕȁё•Έ₯Ω₯Ήœ…Έ•αΑ±…Ή…Ρ₯½Έ™½Θ½Ή—Šé‰•‘…Ω₯½Θ₯́₯΅Α½ΙΡ…ΉΠέ‘•ΈΡΙε₯ΉœΡΌΙ•‰Υ₯±ΡΙΥΝΠΈA…ΙΡΉ•ΊΉ••ΡΌΥΉ‘•ΙΝΡ…Ήέ‘…ЁݕΉΠέΙ½ΉœΝΌΡ‘•δ…Έ΅½Ω”½ΈΈ€Ψ$%Έ½Ι‘•ΘΡΌ½Ω•Ι½΅”ΝΥΝΑ₯₯½ΉΜ½˜‘•…Ρ₯Ήœ½Θ…ΡΥ…°‘•…Ρ₯Ήœ₯ӊé₯΅Α½ΙΡ…ΉΠ™½Θ‰½Ρ Α•½Α±”ΡΌ…Ι•”ΡΌ½΅Α±•Ρ”‘½Ή•ΝΡδ₯ΈΡ‘”™ΥΡΥΙ”…Ή½ΉΡ₯ΉΥ•½΅΅ΥΉ₯…Ρ₯½Έ½˜Ρ‘•₯ȁ™••±ΜΈ!½έ•Ω•Θ°₯ӊé…±ΝΌ₯΅Α½ΙΡ…ΉΠΡΌΙ•½Ή₯锁ё…Ёε½ΥȁΑ…ΙΡΉ•Θέ₯±°Ρ•±°±₯•Μ™Ι½΄Ρ₯΅”ΡΌΡ₯΅”°Ρ‘½Υ Ρ‘•δ΅…䁽Ή±δ‰”έ‘₯Ρ”±₯•ΜΈAΙ½΅₯͕́Ή••ΡΌ‰”‘₯͍ΥΝΝ•…Ή…Ι••ΥΑ½ΈΈ€ά$UΉ‘•ΙΝΡ…ΉΡ‘…Ё…±½Π½˜Α…Ρ₯•Ή”έ₯±°‰”Ή••‘•…́ΡΙΥΝЁ…ΈΡ…­”‘₯™™•Ι•ΉΠ…΅½ΥΉΡ́½˜Ρ₯΅”ΡΌΙ•‰Υ₯±½Έ•… Ν₯‘”Έ½Θ•α…΅Α±”Ρ‘”Α•ΙΝ½Έέ‘Ό‘…́‘•…Ρ•½™Ρ•Έ•αΑ•Ρ́ё”ΡΙΥΝЁѼ‘…Ω”‰••Έ‰Υ₯±ΠΕΥ₯­•ΘΡ‘…Έ₯Ё…ΡΥ…±±δ‘…ΜΈUΉ™½ΙΡΥΉ…Ρ•±δΉ•…Ρ₯Ω”•΅½Ρ₯½ΉΜΡ•ΉΡΌ™••°ΝΡΙ½Ή•Θ…Ή…Ι”…Ι½ΥΉ™½Θ±½Ή•ΘΈ%ӊé­•δΡΌΡΙ䁅Ή™½Ύ½ΈΡ‘”Α½Ν₯Ρ₯Ω”•΅½Ρ₯½ΉΜ…́΅Υ …́Α½ΝΝ₯‰±”Έ€ΰ$I•±…Ρ₯½ΉΝ‘₯Ά…Έ‰”Α…₯Ή™Υ°…Ή‘₯™™₯Υ±Π‰ΥЁё•δ…Έ…±ΝΌ‰Ι₯ΉœΎ•αΡΙ•΅”©½δ…Ή‘…ΑΑ₯Ή•Ν́ͼΝΡ₯¬έ₯Ρ ₯ΠΈQ‘”‘ΥΙЁ…ΉΑ…₯Έέ₯±°Ό•Ω•ΉΡΥ…±±δΈ(+Šq%Ё‘…́‰••Έ„Ρ½Υ ½ΥΑ±”½˜΅½ΉΡ‘́‘•…±₯Ήœέ₯Ρ Q½΄‘•…Ρ₯Ήœ½Έ΅”‰ΥЁݔ‘…Ω”½΅”½ΥЁё”½Ρ‘•Θ•Ή…Ή…́„Ι•ΝձЁ‘…Ω”…Έ•Ω•ΈΝΡΙ½Ή•ΘΙ•±…Ρ₯½ΉΝ‘₯ΐΡ‘…Έ‰•™½Ι”Έ$™••°±₯­”έ—ŠeΙ”Ή½άΝ½±₯…ΉΉ½Ρ‘₯Ήœέ₯±°Ν‘₯™ΠΎ…Α…ΙЁ……₯Έ»ŠuI•‰•­… •ΉΝ½΅”A θ€ΐάΰΰδ€άΨΔΘάȁ΅5…₯°θΙ•‰•­… Ή™•ΉΝ½΅•΅…₯°Ή½΄‘ΡΡΐθΌ½έέάΉΙ•‰•­…‘™•ΉΝ½΅•±₯™•½… Ή½΄Ό()έέάΉ₯ΉΡ•ΙΉ…Ρ₯½Ή…±±₯™•ΝΡ展΅……ι₯Ή”Ή½΄((0