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GLOBAL HAPPINESS by Crissy Butts Happiness Coach » Author/Speaker » Family Team-Building Educator » 1HappyTribe.com A few articles back, I wrote of the importance of building the self-worth in others. Recently, while visiting with The Chinese Chamber of Commerce, we were discussing the value of simply acknowledging others with eye contact, a smile, or a kind word. As we demonstrate kindness, the recipient, in turn, frequently pays kindness forward. The more worth one feels for him/herself, the more he/ she can share a portion of that worth with others. The following quote brings it all full circle, “There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity.” ~ Nathaniel Branden Just a few weeks ago in August, a historic flood hit southeast Louisiana. As with most floods in the gulf, the locals see it coming and have days to prepare as moisture builds over the ocean. This flood was different, without warning, or relation to any tropical storm. It was a normal week until the clouds ceased to turn off the faucet. More than 60,000 homes, businesses and public places were flooded. The water reached as high as 8 feet deep in some homes. 80% of the community did not have any flood insurance. Thousands of families lost everything they owned because the heat of the summer temperatures and the rapid growth of 3 strains of molds that grew on everything it touched, electronics, furniture, clothing, cracks and crevices of drawers, cupboards, vents, light fixtures, closets, etc. Emergency shelters were filled with men, women and children, hard working citizens, with jobs whose lives were completely turned upside down. Electronic systems sizzled on thousands of vehicles and transportation and independence for these folks changed overnight in so many ways. Locals with small fishing boats rescued families tirelessly for three days straight. Many families retreated to the tops of their roof with their pets until help arrived waiting as long as 12 hours. Hundreds of stories of random acts of kindness by everyday people, like you and I, did what they could to lift the burden of these citizens. Food and supplies were quickly donated. Thousands of volunteers came from Texas and other nearby states, rolled up their sleeves and helped haul out every personal belonging they had and piled it on the street. Flooring and sheet-rock were then removed. Homes were deemed unfit for habitation and would nearly require being rebuilt from the frame up. I seized the opportunity to go with a group of volunteers for a weekend to join forces of helping hands to do what we could. Dripping with sweat with masks to protect our lungs from the mold, we tore out sheet-rock, ceilings, and moist insulation. I felt deep empathy for the families we served. I was deeply grateful for the experience to help in a small way. We delivered sanitation kits, played music, gave hugs and talked to the victims. These communities will never ever be the same, the possessions for many, will not be replaced, some have no financial ability to rebuild and nowhere to go. May I offer encouragement to do WHAT you can, WHERE you can. Let’s get out of our busy distracted world and keep eyes wide open for opportunities to lighten the burdens of another, to demonstrate kindness. “Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.” ~ Scott Adams Ponder how you can make a difference in your home, your work, your community, your state, your country. “One who is kind is sympathetic and gentle with others. He is considerate of others’ feelings and courteous in his behavior. He has a helpful nature. Kindness pardons others’ weaknesses and faults. Kindness is extended to all — to the aged and the young, to animals, to those low of station as well as the high.” ~ Ezra Taft Benson Start small or large, whatever your capacity! Onward & upward my friends, in the great cause of elevating global happiness. iF Magazine | www.iFMagazine.net 25