insideKENT Magazine Issue 78 - September 2018 | Page 92

HEALTH+WELLNESS STRESS LESS THIS SEASON cont. Sleep Well Deep Breathing Being stressed can have a major negative impact on our ability to sleep well, causing us to toss and turn and stay up worrying about things that, in many cases, we have no control over. Ironically, getting a good night’s sleep is something that can combat stress and help us to overcome the challenges that we face every day. That doesn’t mean you should give up on sleeping and let your stress get the better of you; instead, there are some clever and interesting ways to help you sleep better despite the stress. Use these techniques a few times, and your stress levels will start to diminish as you sleep more, and that will, of course, help you sleep better anyway! Breathing exercises are wonderful devices for combatting stress. There are many different exercises you can try, but the result is always going to be the same – you will be drawing more oxygen than normal into your lungs, and that gives your brain and body a boost, shocking your stress away and making you feel calmer. One of the simplest exercises you can do is to take a deep breath in, hold it for five seconds, then slowly exhale. Do this 10 times in a row and you will find that you have calmed down significantly. You’ll also be better equipped to deal with the original issue in a measured, positive way. Try going to bed earlier than you would normally. Sometimes stressing about how little sleep you’re going to get can mean that finding that sleep is difficult. Drinking chamomile tea, as mentioned earlier, can help, as can drinking hot milk before bed. The temperature of your room is important to get right too; too hot or cold and the body will be working hard to compensate, and that means it can’t relax enough to let you sleep properly. Sleeping well doesn’t just reduce your stress levels – it can keep you healthy in many other ways too. When you sleep, your body is able to repair itself, restoring your energy, rejuvenating your skin and other organs, and, although your brain never truly rests, giving it a little break from all the billions of thoughts that whiz around it all day. 92 Laugh With Friends Laughing is a tried and true way of managing your stress, even though you may not feel like laughing in the least. The phrase ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ rings true here – if you’re not feeling happy and jolly enough to laugh, do it anyway. It doesn’t matter if it sounds fake or if you know you’re not really feeling it. Just keep going. Sooner or later, that fake laugh will become a real one, and that’s when the healing can begin. There are even classes you can take that teach you laugh therapy, and it really does work. Laughing on your own is good, but laughing with friends is even better. Spending time with people you love has been proven to have a positive effect on your life – you’ll feel happier, be more productive, be more healthy and your stress will diminish. Whether you go out for the evening or stay in doesn’t matter; what you do doesn’t matter; where you go doesn’t matter; all that matters is that you have fun.