MADELIFE
MADEXXX
there’s no one like you. There’s no one
who can do what you’re meant to do on
this planet. There are people counting
on you because there’s a calling on
every one of our lives. There’s a reason
you’re here. If you were not needed on
this planet, you wouldn’t be here. That
awakening that there’s people counting
on me and counting on me to do things
and their life is better because I stood up
into my calling, it straightened my spine.
working wives is that they plan for their
success in their lives. They plan their
personal lives so they have date nights
on the calendar every month so there’s
no surprises. What gets calendared,
gets done. You have to own your time
because if you don’t own your time,
somebody else will grab it.
So as women and as boss brides, you
own your time because it’s your most
“YOU’VE GOT TO BE CLEAR ON WHAT YOU’RE
LOOKING FOR AND YOU’LL BE ABLE
TO CREATE SPACE TO RECEIVE.”
Throughout that loving me process, it
really made me own the fact that I had
already met the love of my life. There’s
one person I came into this earth with
and there’s one person that I will leave
this earth with and it’s me. If I didn’t
take the time and step back and say,
“What makes Charreah so magical?”
then I couldn’t expect someone else
to do it. People treat you the way you
treat yourself. When I modeled loving
on myself, I showed up powerfully, I
showed up rested and I showed up with
good energy, I attracted those things
back to me.
“Do More Of What Fuels You”
The thing is I don’t see [dating and
having a career] as juggling. I see it as a
part of your life that feeds you. Anything
that feeds you, anything that fuels you,
you need to add more of it to your life.
For example, it’s not like hanging out
with your nephew is keeping you from
work. If hanging out with your nephew
fuels you up and makes you feel vibrant,
your work is better. It doesn’t look like
a work meeting but it is a work meeting
because it makes your work better. I
interviewed over a hundred working
wives who shared their insight and one
of the biggest consistent habits for the
precious resource. You can make a
million dollars, you can lose a million
dollars and then you can make a million
dollars back. If you spend 10 years
unconsciously doing things that don’t
feed you, you won’t get that time back.
“The Ending Doesn’t Own The Story”
Sometimes we’ll hear about a breakup
or a divorce or a layoff and we let
the ending own it. We’re like, “Oh, it
didn’t work out.“ No, it worked out. My
parents’ marriage—even though they got
divorced, it worked out because here I
am talking to you, so it was fruitful even
though it had an ending. If you look at
nature, everything has a season and some
of us get stuck because what was good
for a while feels like it should still be
good now. It was good for the season.
Think about someone still trying to wear
their winter boots in the spring. That’s
why it feels sweaty and icky because
it’s time to take the boots off. It doesn’t
mean they weren’t great boots, it just
means their season has expired.
INNOVATION ISSUE
29