How to Coach Yourself and Others Coaching With Meta Communication

Discover how (s)he looks at Relationships : Tell me a little bit about your family. Do you believe in love at first sight? (is he/she a romantic person?) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? Why Did you Break up with your Last Partner? What is your idea of love? What are the most important things you're looking for in a person? What do you look for in a husband/wife? List 3 interests you would like a partner to share with you? What do you think is the most important value in a relationship? Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? Do you like / do you want / do you have children? Suppose if we got into a big fight or argument, what would you do to solve the issue? Is sexual compatibility important to you? On a scale of 1-10, rank the importance of sex to a relationship Do you have any 'happily married' friends or are they just married? Finding out about hobbies and interests: What kind of music do you like? What was the last CD you bought? What is your favourite film? What kind of movies do you like? Who is your favourite actor/actress? - sportsman/-woman? What is your favourite TV programme? What do you do for fun? / What do you like to do in your spare time? Are you a bookworm or an outdoorsy person? What is your favorite sporting activity? Are you a night owl or early bird? Are you more of a city or country person? What book are you reading at the moment? / What is the last book you read? What did you do last weekend? How do you usually spend your Sundays? Do you keep pets? Fun Questions: What three things would you take with you to a desert island? If you could be granted three wishes, what would they be? Is there anything you've always wanted to do, but haven't had the chance? If your friends compared you to an animal, which animal would it be? What animal would you most like to be? Have you ever flirted to get a better deal? What's the daggiest worse item of clothing you have worn? If you could hang out with any celebrity for a whole day, who would you choose? 29

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