How to Coach Yourself and Others Beware of Manipulation | Page 161

  ￿￿￿￿Can you see how this would reduce your work load (solve your problem, increase your profits, etc.) ￿￿￿￿Picture yourself leaving work on time once we make this change (or some other way their life will improve once they agree with you) 5 Action Once you sense that you are approaching agreement, you need to cement it by suggesting the next step or action that will put your solution in motion. Don’t wait – act as soon as you can so that the other person is not left stewing and thinking things over more (and perhaps changing their mind). 52.3 AIDA All sales require that your client has a desire to own your product or use your service. If you haven’t yet created that desire, you will face objections and not make the sale no matter how persuasive you think you are being. This idea comes from the sales method known as AIDA, an acronym which stands for: •A – Attention •I – Interest •D – Desire •A – Action This is very similar to Monroe’s Motivated Sequence Model that we discussed in Chapter Six. The point is that if you haven’t created the desire for your services, you will not persuade the customer that they need your services. Why would they buy something that they don’t want? You will need to go back and establish desire by demonstrating the benefits your offering will provide to the customer. If you do this well enough, you won’t have to do any more persuading – the customer will already want what you are offering. 52.4 Problem-Cause-Solution Another format for organizing a persuasive speech is the problem-cause-solution format. In this specific format, you discuss what a problem is, what you believe is causing the problem, and then what the solution should be to correct the problem. Specific Purpose: To persuade my classroom peers that our campus should adopt a zerotolerance policy for hate speech. Main Points: 1.Demonstrate that there is distrust among different groups on campus that has led to unnecessary confrontations and violence. 2.Show that the confrontations and violence are a result of hate speech that occurred prior to the events. 3.Explain how instituting a campus-wide zero-tolerance policy against hate speech could stop the unnecessary confrontations and violence. 160