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It is accurate to say that most fitness models will be rejected at some point during their careers. The difference between the models in the industry who fail as opposed to those who succeed, is how they identify and respond to their experiences and what they do with the feedback they receive. It is important to take rejection as positively as possible and not let it affect your mood, fitness regime or momentum. As a fitness model you should always be prepared for a last minute TV campaign, photo shoot or event. We never know when they will come. Never be scared of applying for a position that attracts you even if it seems too difficult at the time and you are not even sure you will be considered for the job. What is the worst that can happen after all?! Once I was rejected for a job that I really wanted and one day later I got a very exciting call from someone offering me another amazing opportunity! It is just how the business works. At least I tried and if anything the rejection just motivated me more as I saw how well prepared the model that was eventually chosen for the job had been. The more you try the more experience you will acquire for future jobs. Plus your network will expand! Also, the more jobs you apply for the more chances you have of being chosen. So you really have nothing to lose by putting yourself out there and giving it a shot! If you don’t get picked, life goes on. Remember to still be thankful for the opportunity you were given and to maintain contact with the people there who may be useful to you in the future. You may very well be remembered for another opportunity either because it suits you better or quite simply for being professional and graceful. Legendary basketball coach John Wooden said: “Success is a peace of mind, which is a direct result of selfsatisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming”. Successful people persist. They listen, they improve, they grow and then they try again, and again and again. That is quite simply why they succeed. Always remember that rejection does not mean failure. Rejection is a temporary state that is helping you to work on your weaknesses so you can prepare for a better opportunity that may present itself in the future. As long as we are quoting basketball greats, Michael Jordan said: “I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t and won’t accept not trying.” pg. 8 www.AEFM.com.au How to deal with rejection