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Anti-scam or blacklist websites are informational sites that claim to spread
the “truth” about Russian dating websites, purportedly to save innocent men
from being scammed by devious matchmakers. While some anti-scam or
blacklist site operators may have good intentions, the sad truth is that many
of these lists exist solely to slander the competition.
So how can you know who to trust? Here are some things to keep in mind
when judging an anti-scam site.
SOME BLACKLIS TS ARE OPERATED
BY OR AFFILIATED WI TH COMPET-
ING DATING SITES
Check which international dating
websites have purchased advertising
space on a blacklist site, and then
compare these sites to the ones who
appear on the “approved” or “safe”
list. If you only see one or two ad-
vertisers and they’re high up on the
“safe list,” it is possible the black-
list owner is receiving kickbacks from the “approved”
website. You should especially be suspicious if links to these
sites appear to be part of an affiliate program, where the
blacklist publisher receives money in exchange for traffic
sent to the linked site.
BLACKLISTS ARE NOT REGULATED
Any website which is considered to be an “International
Marriage Broker” must obey applicable laws which govern
their industry; however the so called “blacklist” websites are
not regulated by ANYONE. There are no “official” black list
websites or agencies for the international dating and corre-
spondence industry, so any information you see posted
to these “black list” websites should be considered the
publisher’s subjective opinion. Want to check with a
reliable source? While there are none specific to inter-
national dating and marriage broker services, there are
many official consumer protection organizations which
may be trusted, both within the government as well as in
the private sector.
REJECTED SUITORS OFTEN USE BLACKLIS TS TO VENT
THEIR FRUSTRATIONS
Look closely at reports that come as a result of a failed rela-
tionship. Sadly, many women are accused of being “scam-
mers” simply because of a personal dispute. The dissolution
of a relationship can be very painful and sometimes a man
will stretch the truth or even outright lie to make the woman
seem villainous. Always take post-breakup reports with a
grain of salt. If you weren’t there and don’t know either of
the people involved personally, it’s impossible to know what
REALLY happened when the couple broke up.
Remember, just like a brick and mortar establishment,
Internet-based businesses are subject to bad publicity from
disprovable and often times highly speculative sources. This
is even more prevalent nowadays with internet access be-
coming more widely available and the sense of anonymity
provided by online forums and message boards. Use your
best judgment when determining the validity of black lists
and anti-scam websites.
...the so called “blacklist” websites
are not regulated by ANYONE...
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