Be a Lifestyle
Be more than your hobbies and passions—be a lifestyle.
Honestly, if you enjoy relaxing and taking it easy, then
make sure you convey this. Women, no matter what
country, seek men whose lifestyles they’d either like
to have or which match their own. If you enjoy getting
together with friends and going out to party, mention
this!
“Women feel safe if they feel a relationship is going
somewhere…”
It is a well known psychological fact that one’s interests
predict one’s lifestyle. If you’re interested in reading,
a woman will predict that you’re smart, that perhaps
you lead an intellectual life. Women find this appealing
because it makes them feel safe. If you mention you’re
interested in football, a woman might predict that
you like manly activities. If you mention that you’re
interested in travel, a woman might predict that you
like experimenting, adventure and trying new things. of an elite group in your neighborhood. Whatever
it is, realize that these aspects make you more
appealing.
Many men and women don’t realize how exciting their
lives actually are. They downplay their lives and take
everything for granted. But to someone else, your life
could be really exciting! If you play poker with a group of
friends, mention this! If you enjoy cooking a special dish,
mention this! If you like driving a certain car, mention
this! To you it’s nothing special but to someone you’re
getting to know it could add an attractive feature.
Studies have shown that men who have plants and who
take an interest in nature actually have an increased
appeal to women because plants make many women
feel safe as they represent a calm, mature lifestyle.
The main point is women feel safe if they feel a
relationship is going somewhere. If you share aspects
of who you are and your life, she’s likely to be able to
envision herself amongst it. compliment your lifestyle.
Make yourself and the lifestyle you represent so good—
you can afford to be picky. Women will be attracted to
men who suit their own life. You must give an honest and
accurate representation of the life and expectations you
have but also the ones you want. Be honest with yourself
and ask yourself what romantic partner will make you
happy. Maybe their lifestyle doesn’t matter to you—that’s
fine. But realize your boundaries and limits so you’re
not disappointed.
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Decide What You Want
Before you preset a lifestyle to others it’s important
that you know what you personally want. If you’re used
to a certain standard of living or if you’re accustomed
to stimulating conversation, it’s important to realize
this. Great, long-lasting relationships won’t work if you
settle too quickly with someone who doesn’t match or
IF YOU LIKE DRIVING A CERTAIN
CAR, MENTION THIS! TO
SOMEONE YOU’RE GETTING
TO KNOW IT COULD ADD AN
ATTRACTIVE FEATURE.
The topics of conversation you choose will represent
the lifestyle you live. Be more than just a picture or a
tagline. Be a lifestyle, and women will associate you with
these attributes. When you represent more than just an
individual, women see what you’re a part of, what makes
you appealing and what makes you an exciting ‘catch.’
Market Yourself & Lifestyle
What is most exciting about your interests? What is
the most glamorous aspect of your life? Maybe you
watch a really exciting TV show or maybe you’re part
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Make Her Laugh
Laughter, according to psychology, is the number one
way to build a relationship. Wasn’t it Marilyn Monroe
who said, “If you can make a girl laugh you can make
her do anything,”? The point is that laughing makes
people feel good. This is because laughing releases
endorphins which can reduce pain up to 50%!
If you can make her laugh or figure out what
makes her smile—you will have an exciting
conversation. Studies have shown that women are
more attracted to men who they share a sense of
humor with, someone who can touch their minds.
Also laughter is an excellent indication that you’ll have
fun together and that you’ll develop a long-lasting
relationship and connection. According to Psychology
Today, women see humor as a sign of intelligence.
Also, men are more likely to go for women who lau gh
at their jokes. At the end of the day, dating serves to
connect you to women who understand you, your
image the lifestyle you represent.
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