Honestly Woman Issue 3: June 2017 | Page 17

"I am a girl with a mind A bitch with an at titude And a lady with class." grown man cry, grovel and suck up as he did. He was desperate; he had no idea how to work the dozer so I had him where I wanted him. Revenge is so sweet at times. I was 16 with a big chip on my shoulder; no one messed with me and got away with it, especially men. So, we struck a deal and my career as a dozer driver for Case began. I was flying all over the country, test driving dozers for a big company – one day in Darwin, the next in Sydney. As a young woman in a man’s world it was hard to crack, but it was worth it as this job took me anywhere and everywhere. The fellow and his family became wonderful friends and like a new family to me. It opened my eyes that there were normal people out there and that kids really did have great times if they had someone to love them, to nurture and respect them. We eventually had many laughs over my motto that got me the job. On my wedding day years later I received a telegram saying ‘Congratulations on your wedding day. May you have a girl with a mind, a bitch with an attitude, and a husband with class. Love - from a man who knows an attitude!’ We stayed great friends until his death. I stayed in this job for nine months on and off, between doing lots of other things from serving ice-cream to working at cattle sales yards before returning to North Queensland, where I ended up driving a dump truck at a family mine. I wasn’t happy and was planning and dreaming of going to work on a cruise liner somewhere, because I was told it was a great way to travel and get paid good money. The French family: Seated are Rob’s parents, Gus & Adelaide French. Middle back – Lyn and Rob. Back right, Kerri-ann. Seated right, Anna with her partner Joey below, and Ruby. Left, seated, Camilla, daughter-in-law, with Ashley nursing Ellie. Front centre, little Robert. Photo taken Gilberton Station, in the Gilbert River bed. (Jan 2017) ISSUE 2 OF 4 IN 2017 17