HeyU Issue 50 - 21 September | Page 17

Features 17 When Lisa decided to begin her studies after her place of work closed down, she was judged, questioned and made to feel insecure. Some of her extended family even called her a ‘fool‘. Why? Because of her age. This meant that, in addition to the usual fears people experience before they start university, Lisa had now been made to worry that she wouldn‘t be able to cope with the study load, that she wasn‘t intelligent enough to study at a uni level, and that, as a mature age student, she would be older than her classmates and might struggle with the material. ‘There‘s a stereotype of older people, that they are slow, unable to use technology and aren‘t smart, and I‘ve experienced discrimination based on these types of stereotypes both at uni and when looking for work. Lisa remembers vividly one occurrence when she was told by a younger classmate that ‘everyone older than 45 should be forced to stop working‘ because older people were stealing young people‘s jobs. 'I knew I could do it, but nobody (except my immediate family) would believe me'. Another example was when, ‘after passing several phone interviews and online quizzes, a potential employer was very enthusiastic about having me come in for an interview. When I actually went into the office to meet her, though, she looked me up and down and said ‘What did someone your age bother going to uni for?‘ All she could see was my age‘. Rather than letting the negativity and short sightedness of family, classmates and potential employers discourage her from pursuing her dreams, Lisa let their doubts fuel her desire not only to graduate, but to be a high achiever and prove the naysayers wrong. ‘It was like they wanted me to curl up in a ball and just give up on my goals, and I wasn‘t going to do that‘. Throughout her degree, Lisa has also had to cope with a number of challenging and unpredictable circumstances that tested her ability to stay focused and motivated while under enormous stress.