Here & Now 2016 Editions October 2016 | Page 34

LOVE UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER If something made you cry when you were a child, your experience was probably a little something like this: IF YOU WERE A BOY: you would cry, then go to your parents for some comfort, and would hear something along the lines of: “Stop crying! You’re a man! Men don’t cry. Stop crying now.” IF YOU WERE A GIRL: you would cry, then go to your parents for some comfort, and would hear something along the lines of: “Aw. What happened sweetie? Come here and tell me all about it…” You would be cuddled and showered with love and affection until you had stopped crying. Happy relationships don’t just happen, you make them happen.” 34