Healthy Magazine Healthy RGV Issue 120 | Page 12

HEALTHY KIDS · NOVEMBER 2018 If our sons are about to make a destructive decision, we tell them. If they have broken a rule, we enforce the consequences, all the while ensuring him that we are allies, not en- emies. Our sons need to know that we have their backs, even if it doesn't seem this way. Moms, when you are strong with your sons they will respect you and the rules you've put in place and, eventually, they will see how wisdom and responsibility are required for setting boundaries and sticking to them. This will instill in them the ability to value all human life. You may not think you have this much power or influence over your son, but trust me, you do. More mothers need to believe this, today more than ever. We need to be sending strong sons into the world, not in the physical sense, but in the emotional and spiritual senses. This is what will keep our daughters safe when we're no longer there to protect them. So yes, parents, it is a scary world out there, but you have the power to make it a better place. Raise strong daughters and strong sons who love and value others. If the next generation of children leaves their parents’ homes believing in and valuing all human life above their own, they will be the ones who change the world, and it will be because of how you influenced theirs. By Lisbeth Splawn 12 HEALTHY MAGAZINE