Health&Wellness Magazine April 2015 | Page 25

For advertising information visit www.samplerpublications.com or call 859.225.4466 | April 2015 Stockholm Syndrome Empathy with captor or abuser makes for an interesting abnormality By Charles Sebastian, Staff Writer Stockholm syndrome remains one of the most interesting abnormalities in the psychiatric canon. The concept is that someone who is held captive or subjected to ongoing abuse becomes empathic with the captor or abuser. While this seems completely illogical to someone outside the situation, it is very real and very potent for those within the relationship. Several theories have been posited over the years to explain this bizarre phenomenon. Perhaps the best known comes from the Freudian model. This claims that the ego builds walls around itself for protection and survival. At some point the ego feels it must identify or sympathize with the captor or abuser to understand his or her motivations to a fuller degree. While this has been a widely held 2 HAMBURG JOURNAL Freudian notion for many years, it does not explain all cases. The syndrome received its name from an incident in August 1973, when six employees were held hostage during a robbery at Kreditbanken bank in Stockholm, Sweden. During their six days of captivity, the hostages refused the government’s offers of help, siding with their captors. Nils Bejerot, a criminal psychiatrist involved with the case at the time, coined the term “Stockholm syndrome” after the event. It is important to distinguish Stockholm syndrome from the “brainwashing” we may have seen depicted in many movies and books. The case of Patty Hearst is a prime example of this phenomenon where, once kidnapped, the victim is subjected to a new belief system and changes to suit the situation. Stockholm syndrome specifically has the captive empathizing with the captor, sometimes to the point of risking life and limb for the captor, should the opportunity arise. Holding someone captive is nothing new in the history of the human race, and it is for this reason evolutionary psychologists claim Stockholm syndrome is a muchneeded coping mechanism. It’s probably in our genes to be able to humanize others, even those who might harm us. This in some way speaks to the humanity that we had to develop over millennia to build a society based on certain values. Certainly one survival mechanism would have been the ability to identify with those who might do you harm – to see their point of view and to not kill over land, food, women or chattel unless it was absolutely necessary. WWW.HAMBURGJOURNAL.COM & The syndrome received its name from an incident in August 1973. JANUARY 2O12 Senior Retirement Community Rose Mary C. Brooks Place Rose Mary C. Brooks Place We’re Not Almost Home. We are Home. We’re not almost home. We are home. NOW LEASING Celebrating Mother’s Day with 1 & 2 bedroom apartments. brunch and Includes assistance with activities of daily living. Three meals a day, weekly housekeeping, concierge service and much more! Our rates are competitive and all inclusive. Enjoy 24/7 emergency response by our well trained staff. Guardian Life Alert System is included for all new residents at no additional cost. Daily care is tailored to meet the unique needs of individual. Enjoying the view from the patio. The Cottages (below) offer more independent retirement living. great friends NOW LEASING! Assisted Living (above) available in Studio and One-Bedroom Apartm