Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 1, ( 1 July 2018) | Page 25

Heal your Heart – Through Hypnotherapy Heartbreak is a topic which affects everyone at some point in their lives from a school crush, loss of a pet, a break up from a short or long-term partner, a divorce or even the loss of a loved one. We are constantly programming ourselves with our experiences of life. When you invest time thinking about, being with or loving someone all those emotions and feelings become part of who you are. When that person ceases to be in your life for whatever reason, life can feel empty leaving an open emotional wound. Some reasons: • Break up • Hurt • Betrayal or guilt of an affair • Divorce • Loss of a loved one • Emotional Pain • Romantic rejection • Lovesickness • Heartache • Emptiness • Loneliness • Grief • Bereavement Many people feel betrayed or rejected when a relationship ends or devastation when they lose someone close. Hypnotherapy deals with the turmoil of the experience , help you let go of the person and put the past into perspective. The person will still be part of your past but you will feel more comfortable with them, rather than it being devastating to live without them. One of the biggest problems people face is the ‘what ifs’. 'What if this had happened ?' 'What if it had been different ?' 'What if I had done or not done this or that?' The entire negative self-talk ends up programming your mind not to move on causing you further hurt and distress.