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Your “DiffiCuLt CLient” anD MeDiation Mediation & Arbitration Section Chairs: Kari Metzger - Metzger Law Group P.A. & Robert Scanlan - Hyde Park Mediation Group as Jerry Maguire said, “help Me… L awyers sometimes learn after they take a case that they have a client with unrealistic expectations about the value of their case. Plaintiffs sometimes tie the amount they need to get in settlement to their financial needs unrelated to the case. Defendants sometimes feel that paying significant amounts, or agreeing to non-monetary concessions, is tantamount to admitting they are “bad” or did something wrong, despite knowing that they will be able to expressly deny liability or wrongdoing in any settlement agreement. Often, the client’s intense dislike of the other party gets in the way of logic. One solution to this problem involves using your mediator to the fullest. Specifically, a confidential call or meeting in advance of mediation in which you let the mediator know of the difference in opinions, misplaced motives, or emotional roadblocks can help your mediator work with you to help eliminate any “disconnects” between you and your client. Sometimes when a client hears the same perspective on a key issue from the mediator as the client has been hearing from their lawyer, this allows the client to truly consider for the first time that they may have an inaccurate view of their case’s strength or an unrealistic case value in mind. Sometimes an advocate 50 help You!” © Can Stock Photo / eelnosiva cannot effectively point out problems with the client’s case, or strengths of the adversary’s case, without appearing to be weak or being viewed as taking the other side. The mediator can help overcome those obstacles. Of course, the mediator has to comply with the Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators in doing so, including the prohibitions against “offer[ing] a personal or professional opinion intended to coerce the parties,” “unduly influenc[ing] the parties,” or “offer[ing] a personal or professional opinion as to how the court in which the case has been filed will resolve the dispute.” 1 But that does not mean the mediator has no tools to help your client see a different perspective. The Rules provide that a mediator may “point out possible outcomes of the case and discuss the merits of a claim or defense.” The mediator can also “raise issues and discuss strengths and weaknesses of positions underlying the dispute.” Finally, in addressing the difficult client, the mediator may “call upon their own qualifications and experience to supply information and options,” provided the client is ultimately “given the opportunity to freely decide upon resolution.” 2 In other words, the mediator can ask questions of the client about the weaknesses of the case, raise issues such as the absence of a correlation between the value of the case and the client’s unrelated financial needs, or supply information to the client based on the mediator’s own qualifications and experience. The mediator can also find talking points to steer around emotional roadblocks that the advocate cannot effectively broach without risking the accusation of being disloyal. By doing so, the mediator can make sure the client has all the information necessary to properly understand their case and the options to resolve it, while also demonstrating to the client that their attorney is — and has been — accurately evaluating the case. But to do so, the mediator has to know that there is a disagreement between the lawyer and the client. So tell your mediator. As Jerry Maguire said, “Help Me … Help You!” See Rule 10.370, available at http://www.flcourts.org/core/fileparse. php/422/urlt/Mediator-Rules-Tab- 3.pdf 2 See Committee Notes to Rule 10.370. 1 Author: Jim Matulis - Matulis Law & Mediation JAN - FEB 2018 | HCBA LAWYER