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ABUNDANCE HEALTH

gets too close physically . Timing and moods are also factors in terms of individual needs . You may have heard about the person who insists another wear a sweater because she ( the one insisting ) is cold .
RULE II : “ He / She who has the money ( GOLD ), makes the rules .” Unfortunately , this Golden Rule is resulting from a part of our society obsessed with power , greed and ego . Our economic base , as great as it is with the free enterprise philosophy , has bred many generations of financial-success-oriented machines , many with little or no conscience . The bottom line for these people is money , power and ego gratification .
The primary way to more power and ego gratification is money , using others in whatever way possible and whatever way necessary . In business , in families , friendships – and yes , in most current mate relationships – He / she who has the money / gold makes the rules . The ones without the gold have to get permission , approval or support from the controller of the finances / resources for purchases and decisions involving money .
In close relationships , especially mate relationships , the emotional element adds to the pressure when it comes to money . The one who has the money controls with it and / or the other one manipulates or conforms to get what he / she wants . In many sad cases , the money is the main , if not the only reason – the one who feels lack is there .

The primary way to more power and ego gratification is money , using others in whatever way possible and whatever way necessary . In business , in families , friendships – and yes , in most current mate relationships – He / she who has the money / gold makes the rules .

RULE IV : “ Share the Gold .” The universal law of attraction brings us that for which we are grateful and that which we emit , give out . Whatever gold we have is multiplied when shared with a generous heart and especially when done so for the greatest good of all . That is the true GOLD .
RULE V : “ Find the Gold ” – See the good in everything / everyone . Judge not – lest ye be judged . Open up to looking at the world with a more “ golden light ” view .
Unfortunately , the true compatibility and bonding for these couples never develops to the rich , fulfilling experience it could be – an integrated spiritual , mental , emotional and physical alignment . They never quite get past the material end of things ; i . e . the GOLD RULES .
RULE III : Do unto yourself for the highest good of all . By each keeping oneself on the higher path , staying true to our divine nature and being a beacon of light for goodness with each other , we can create a giant undeniable ray of light and hope .
Think about it . What goes around comes around . What you “ see ”, say , do , feel and think – is what you get . Why would anyone project out into the collective “ pot ” of all that is – anything negative or damaging to anyone . After all , we are ALL ONE and what we do to others , we do to ourselves . Whether it ’ s a close / intimate relationship , a total stranger on the street , a business situation or another human living clear across the planet in some totally different culture – what makes you think their needs , desires and rights are any less important than your own ?
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