Green Child Magazine Winter 2013 | Page 19

modern The Mama’s Guide to Self-Care Modern day motherhood is no walk in the park, so to speak. Even with all of the amenities and technological advances (smart phones that do everything except change your baby’s diapers) modern mamas are even more exhausted and overwhelmed than previous generations. Why is this? Why, with the best of everything, are we seeing such an influx of thyroid disorders, adrenal exhaustion and hormonal disruption to name a few? Modern day motherhood means having been subjected to modern day living: environmental pollutants, chemical war fares in our homes, personal and beauty care, pesticide and GMO-laden foods and so on. The human body, especially a woman’s delicate hormonal infrastructure, can only handle so much. Add to this the hurried and over-scheduled lifestyle of caring for the kids, piling on extracurricular activities, being the head of the household, possibly working and making sure everyone, including the cat, is happy. Where does this leave mom? You guessed it: wiped out. When mom is not well the whole castle crumbles, so let’s see how we can remedy and even prevent this from happening in the first place. By Christy Funk Self-care: Why it’s important It is just as important to introduce this information to a woman as is breast-feeding and new baby care. We, as a culture, need to implement it into our conditioning from the time we are young women. Self-care means love. Women are naturally givers. It is a beautiful marvel that we intrinsically have as women, and when properly cultivated and nurtured, it benefits the whole planet. The problem is, when we stop understanding that the output needs to be balanced with the input. How we care for ourselves is vital to our wellbeing. Think of it as replenishing the fuel in an auto-mobile when it is on low. A mom just cannot go on until that fuel is replenished. Here are just some of the factors that can deplete a mom: • Over-scheduling • Nutrition (skipping meals & eating poorly) • Using chemicals in the home or on the body • Not having down-time during the day, at least 15 minutes of “me” time • Staying up late • Not taking time to meditate, pray or contemplate 19