Green Child Magazine Holiday 2012 | Page 22

5. Highlight the rewards of giving. Nothing lifts a child’s disappointment more quickly than giving a heartfelt gift to someone else. Shifting the emphasis from receiving to giving helps children see the exchange of presents from a different perspective. Kids love picking out gifts for other people. In addition to helping kids thoughtfully choose gifts for friends and family, choose a charity, toy drive, food pantry or other group and lend a hand. 6. Make a "family wish list" together and be sure to include non-material wishes—such as taking a walk in the snow or drinking hot cocoa by the fire. These wishes can be granted through “coupons” when it comes time to open gifts, or woven into the weeks surrounding the holidays to extend the celebration beyond one "special" day. 7. Focus on the "magic" of the season -which does not come from lots of toys. Get past the gift grab by making new holiday traditions. Make time for listening to seasonal music, baking treats, making decorations or crafting simp