Change it up . Let your love and sexiness flow through your natural look ! When I change up my look , whether it is the way I wear my make-up , my hair , or even just the way I dress it will make me feel like a new woman so try something new . Don ’ t be afraid of change , chop your hair off — it ’ ll grow back . Try that new shade of lipstick and buy that fuchsia low cut dress ! If it ’ s new and you love it , that ’ s all you need to feel and look your sexiest .
Pep talk . I give myself pep talks a lot these days . A quick pep talk ( usually while I ’ m driving to my boutique ) makes me feel better about everything I ’ m worried about in my life . Talking things out with yourself is good and it doesn ’ t make you crazy , I promise . With the everyday grind , and woes of financial hardships , relationships , raising kids and life in general saying good words to you really can make the difference in your day . It ’ s easy to say to oneself “ I am so stupid ” but wouldn ’ t you rather hear yourself say , “ I am so great !” And why not , you are great ! So say it out loud . It matters just like the words you hear from others , the words that come out and back to you do matter most . I have no problem driving along on any given day , while at a stoplight and catching a glance of myself in my rearview mirror then saying , “ Damn girl , you look sex today !”
Stretch . I can only stress when I say that when I stretch , lying down or standing up , it gives me a rush and utter feelings of femininity and sexiness . I especially love it when my lover is nearby , I ’ m naked so I will stretch up and reach up for my closet door frame ( considering I ’ m only 5 ’ 2 ” it ’ s a very low door frame ). While I twist and reach up , I can see him watching me . It ’ s an ultimate sexy feeling . I also find it very powerful to hold anyone ’ s attention in that manner when I stretch . It simply feels amazing .
The trick to feeling sexy is the more comfort you find with yourself ; the easier it will be to find what makes you feel sexy . These are my favorite ways to feel sexy but there are many more and some that I ’ ve not even though of , I ’ m sure but I will keep finding them as I go . So try some of my methods but be sure to explore what feels good to you . If it feels good then you ’ re doing it right .
Happy Valentine ’ s Day !