GLOSS Issue 23 JULY 2015 | Page 8

“I never would have done it by myself.” ‘ helper’ but nobody can resist being asked for advice. And even if it’s just a little bit And she got that help because she asked. of advice, then they’re invested in you, and Which is she says is “major, major, they’re invested in that process.” majorly” the lesson she has learned: YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF Yassmin has learned many other lessons YOU DON’T ASK. through the years, particularly in regards When asking for help, sometimes it’s just to managing the process and the people about the framing. involved once they’re on board. A key one for her is communication. “I got given really good advice recently: never ask for ‘ help’ but ask for ‘advice’. When people have different agendas and People don’t necessarily want to be a expectations, constant communication 8 GLOSS JULY 2015