GLOSS Issue 23 JULY 2015 | Page 40

My friend told me a story about her sister recently who’s been trying to build a business in Asia. She said she’s often been discriminated against for being non-Asian, but never for being a woman. out of someone, is to ask. If you’re the Managing Director of a 1000-strong agency, this is hard but not impossible. If you’re in a boutique agency of less than 50, there’s no excuse. Yay, for gender diversity. Boo for racial stereotyping. And this process works just as well managing up as it does down. And let’s face it; pretty soon there’ll be a lot of Gen Y managing Gen X; it’s not about Consider this: EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LISTENED TO – WHATEVER GENERATION THEY ARE. AND THE BEST WAY TO KNOW HOW TO GET THE BEST OUT OF SOMEONE, IS TO ASK. 1. Gen Y, Male, Introvert, and Steady personality type 2. Gen Y, Female, Extrovert, Direct personality type What are the chances that the same things that motivate one, motivate the other? I think we need to consider the tools and ways of working across the different generations, but at the end of the day it’s all about communication. Everyone wants to be listened to – whatever generation they are. And the best way to know how to get the best 40 GLOSS JULY 2015 age and experience any more. So what I’m talking about is the Platinum Rule. According to the Urban Dictionary: “The Platinum Rule far predates the How I Met Your Mother episode of the same name. It is similar to the Golden Rule, but more considerate. It states “Do unto others as they would have you do unto them, not as you would have them do unto you.” Basically, treat others as THEY wish to be treated, not how you would wish them to treat you.” The Platinum Rule perfectly sums