GLOSS Issue 22 JUNE 2015 | Page 64

His situation highlights the reality of courage: that being brave extends far beyond heroic actions on the battlefield. In fact, most of the time being brave is far less dramatic, far more mundane and easier to avoid without appearing cowardly. It requires us not to confront an external enemy, but to confront the THE MOST IMPORTANT CONVERSATIONS ARE OFTEN THE MOST DIFFICULT. Harnessing the power of conversation in your work, your relationships HARNESSING THE POWER OF CONVERSATION IN YOUR WORK, YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND YOUR LIFE ALL BOILS DOWN TO YOUR WILLINGNESS TO PARK YOUR PRIDE AND STEP OUTSIDE YOUR CONVERSATIONAL COMFORT ZONE. enemy within ourselves — our fear, our ego and our insecurity — which drives us to fit in and to preserve the image we want others to see. Nowhere is this more relevant than in how we connect and communicate with those around us. Not just about the really big issues, but about the everyday small ones that can slowly compound, fester away and ultimately derail our relationships, careers and lives. 64 and your life all boils down to your willingness to park your pride and step outside your conversational comfort zone. As simple as it sounds, many people struggle to say what they think, to share how they feel, to reveal where they face difficulty and to ask for what they need. Which is why speaking truthfully is one of the most courageous things you can ever do. It’s also one of the most important because the health GLOSS JUNE 2015