GLOSS Issue 22 JUNE 2015 | Page 51

It’s easy to give up when confronted with disappointment or failure. Having a mindset that recognises these as temporary setbacks is what provides us with the ability to learn from what hasn’t worked and to be open to trying something d ifferent. Flexibility of thinking in our challenging and rapidly changing world is essential to avoid getting stuck in the status quo. FAMILY FIRST. For Desi, family is everything. She and her husband Barry have three grown up children - and they still all go on regular family holidays together. As the family holiday organiser Desi fills her calendar with regular sojourns for herself and Barry as well as frequent trips around the world with her family. WHAT’S NEXT? Desi has always had a natural affinity and curiosity about the world around us. It is that curiosity that drives her to always question: Who? Why? What? How? Curiosity is another key to having a high performance brain. It’s about asking, “How can this be done differently, or better?” Desi shared that her greatest wish is for us all to have a greater understanding about what matters to achieve a healthy life: to ensure that our kids are born into a world that will provide them the ability to grow and live to their full potential. She envisages that the research she is now involved with will provide the blueprint to that understanding. That one day this will be taught as a module in school so that our children gain the knowledge and understanding prior to them themselves becoming parents. In business it can be easy to get sucked into thinking that work is the most important thing in our life. While it may matter a lot, it is those around us, our support group, back up band and most loyal of groupies; our family - that That is the way we can all learn and will be there for us through thick and shape our culture and society. What thin, that are vital. one generation learns is passed down to the next. We are social beings and our social connections are as important to us as the air we breathe, the food we eat and Whether you are a Paediatrician, an Engineer, an Artist or CEO, using the shelter we seek. our brain to develop high performance thinking is what allows us to always For Desi, it’s not a matter of seeking perform at our personal best. work-life balance; it’s about living life to the fullest in every aspect. GLOSS JUNE 2015 51