Don’t skip a party, as it displays disrespect
for the hosts of the events, whether they
be your peers, friends or colleagues. The
hosts have been kind enough to extend an
invitation to you, by attending the event
you will display respect, commitment and
kindness.
Unless you have justifiable conflict, showing
up is a must. When you do attend, spend
at least an hour at the party for your future
strategic relationships. Remember that not
attending could hurt your reputation, but
partying until the wee hours could hurt it
more.
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Keeping all conversations positive
maintains the impact of your personal
brand. Don’t spend the event complaining,
bragging, whining or ridiculing. Avoid
controversial subjects. People won’t
remember the specifics of what you said;
they will remember how you made them
feel.
executives from your company. In a social
environment they are more open to talk.
Introduce yourself on a personal level and
ask about hobbies and interests. This is a
key opportunity take advantage of it.
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Ask the host of the event what the dress
code is (if it does not appear on your
invitation) and stick to it. Conservative
clothes are always a good choice, keep
it professional and fun! What you wear is
a direct representation of your personal
brand. Dressing for success is about
reflecting your authentic self. Your clothes
should communicate the essential stuff
that makes you you at a glance. Dress
tastefully and your peers will instantly
perceive you as professional.
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Events around Christmas and the New
Year are great opportunities to spread
the goodwill of your personal brand. It
is a great time to catch up with friends,
colleagues and employers. Be careful not
to turn these catch-ups into gossiping
sessions because this is not how you want
to be perceived by your peers.
Staff parties are a perfect time to get to
know your colleagues! Use these events
as an opportunity to rub elbows with the
Drink plenty of water at these events.
The weather is warmer and alcohol is
dehydrating. Drinking too much is the
most damaging thing you can do to your
personal brand, especially at a work event.
Drink a glass of water between each
alcoholic beverage and set a limit. You can
always go for a social drink with friends
afterwards. By doing this you will ensure
that your relationship with alcohol doesn’t
define your personal brand. Remember,
there are so many more aspects of you to
showcase!
Finally, don’t forget to thank your hosts
for their planning and coordination of
the party. Sending a thank you card is a
sure way to help you gain notice and be
appreciated.
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These tips are not only applicable to
the Christmas and New Year season. By
following these simple guidelines at events
throughout the year you can enhance
and protect your personal brand and will
perceived by your friends, colleagues and
employers as professional and confident.