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RELATIONSHIPS I'm not lovable; they are lots of people out there who feel fundamentally unlovable. In as much as this is a legitimate feeling, it's still something you need to get over. Recognize that, it's only a feeling and not an actual fact. And don't doubt other feelings about you. Open your heart to receive love from other people. (Stretch yourself out of your comfort zone). I'll be cheated on; success leaves clues and so do liars, you will only be cheated on when you refuse to listen to your guts, when you start to get suspicious. To avoid a cheater you need to first avoid a liar. Be start enough to deal with the situation when you see red flags and be strong enough to walk away from every abusive and unhealthy relationships. I've tried everything; trust me, you've not tried everything when it comes to dating, you might have don't all the things that didn't work, but you haven't done the things that do work. Getting positive and productive results in dating are spontaneous right actions. Follow your instincts, (go to that party, let your down and dance in the rain, go out for launch, talk to that stranger). I'm not successful enough; you can find a partner that will accept you exactly where you are in life, but first you have to accept yourself. If you place value more on material worth and not integrity or personality then you may suffer from feeling inferior when it comes to your level of success. The person I like, may not like me; we are often misguided by assumptions. But asides religion and race everything else is negotiable. What that person you like is looking for are great times, playful moments, and sexual attractions. As long as you meet this basic criteria then you are compatible with more people than you think. Note that, negative results are missed opportunities to meet the right people. You have already come in contact with several potential dates, they are either behind you, in the next aisle or right across the street. The only reason you haven't met them is because you operate from the mind-set that they don't exist. A great relationship might just start with a simple “Hello”, follow your guts and let go of the negative excuses disguised as a belief. Choose positive thoughts that serves you and your mission to attract and sustain love and stop those negativity that ruins your chances of finding love.