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WELLNESS & WELL-BEING #MeToo Help When You Need It S haring personal experiences is not easy. Hopefully, the sharing is cathartic; hopefully, it offers some solace. In some cases, it may serve as a trigger for feelings that may have been long suppressed or that may never have been addressed before. Some people may choose not to share their story out loud, and are still dealing with emotions internally. For those who need to talk to someone, those who are in a current abusive situation that they need to get out of, those victims of sexual assault or harassment who need assistance in any way, there is help out there. Here are just a few of the available community resources. The Angel Band Project , a nonprofit organization that helps victims of sexual assault to break the silence and heal through music. 6267 Delmar Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63130 (314) 240-5525, angelbandproject.org Annie Malone Children & Family Services ’ mission is to improve the quality of life for children, families, the elderly and the community by providing social services, educational programs, advocacy and entrepreneurship. The organization provides crisis intervention, juvenile respite, emergency placement and transitional housing. 2612 Annie Malone Drive, St. Louis, MO 63113 (314) 531-0120, anniemalone.com YWCA Metro St. Louis - Women’s Resource Center assists more than 1,000 victims annually. Its sexual assault response team works collaboratively with local police officers, area hospitals  and prosecutors, as well as with other victim service agencies. Services include crisis intervention, survivor support services, education and advocacy. 3820 West Pine Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63108 (314)531-1115 or sexual assault 24- hour crisis hotline: (314) 531-7273, ywcastlouis.org STATISTICS ON SEXUAL VIOLENCE Here are a few disturbing facts and figures concerning sexual violence in the U.S., according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center. • 91 percent of the victims of rape and sexual assault are female, and 9 percent are male • In eight out of 10 cases of rape , the victim knew the person who sexually assaulted them • 8 percent of rapes occur while the victim is at work • 81 percent of women and 35 percent of men who are sexually assaulted report significant short-term or long- term impacts, such as post-traumatic stress disorder The Covering House provides refuge and restoration, using the least restrictive environment, for sexually exploited and trafficked children and teens, providing safety, dignity, and freedom utilizing top-level staffing and oversight. 8702 Manchester Road, St. Louis, MO 63144 (314) 962-3450, thecoveringhouse.org Provident helps individuals and families discover a brighter future through counseling, suicide prevention and intervention, and community support programs. 2650 Olive St., St. Louis, MO 63103 (314) 647-4357 or (800) 273-8255, providentstl.org Safe Connections reduces the impact and incidence of relationship violence and sexual assault through education, crisis intervention, counseling and support. 2165 Hampton Ave., St. Louis, MO 63139 (314) 646-7500 or 24-hour crisis helpline (314) 531-2003, safeconnections.org Child sexual abuse • One in four girls and one in six boys will be sexually abused before they turn 18 years old • 34 percent of people who sexually abuse a child are family members • 12.3 percent of women were age 10 or younger at the time of their first rape or victimization, and 30 percent of women were between the ages of 11 and 17 • 27.8 percent of men were age 10 or younger at the time of their first rape or victimization • 325,000 children are at risk of becoming victims of commercial child sexual exploitation each year SAVVY I SOPHISTICATED I SASSY 89