GAZELLE MAGAZINE Luxury Holiday Issue 2015 | Page 94

WOMEN WHO INSPIRE DEDICATION AND COMMITMENT SOS President Gwendolyn Wesley enjoys helping others By VICKI BENNINGTON Gwendolyn “Gwen” Wesley has spent her adult life working and volunteering in the community, and she has a real heart for helping children. For more than a decade, she has been an “on call” third party reviewer for foster care cases in St. Louis County, which may involve two or three cases a year. She may serve as an unbiased “third party” between deputy juvenile officers, social workers, therapists, caseworkers, house mothers, or sometimes the family and/or the child, especially if the case involves a teenager. 94 “Sometimes I talk to the teens - ask about goals and help them realize they can speak for themselves and can be in charge of their own lives to make positive changes,” Gwen said. “I want to help children recognize their value, and to realize they deserve to be loved and cherished. “We have to give children a chance,” she said. “They all deserve loving homes, and being caught in the system shouldn’t be the final destination for any child.” Gwen originally intended to be a teacher, but began working for the Division of Children and Family Services as a caseworker, then GAZELLE STL later as a quality control agent, auditing cases for the state of Missouri. She worked as a consultant and contract trainer for National Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) of Seattle, Washington, serving on the Curriculum Advisory and the African-American Advisory committees. On the local level, she served on the board of CASA of St. Louis County (now Voices for Children). “One of my most memorable moments was when my good friend and her husband adopted two children for whom I served as their CASA,” Gwen said. “It was absolutely the best thing in the world.” Gwen moved into IT work at McDonnellDouglas, then moved to Monsanto, but never gave up on her commitment to helping children. In addition to her ongoing foster care work, Gwen has volunteered as a reading role model for St. Louis public schools and with the OASIS reading tutor program in the Hazelwood School District. At Monsanto, she added to her skill sets, learned to write code for business systems, configure computer systems and provide computer software training. She worked as manager of information systems technology, managed a user support center, and was a manager of governmental and environmental affairs, among other positions. “And I did a lot of public speaking with both CASA and Monsanto,” she said. She’s also been singing publicly all of her life – or at least after her first attempt at age 12. That ’s when she was given her first opportunity to sing a solo lead at church, but when her big moment came, she froze. “I just couldn’t get the words out, and the choir went on without me,” she said. “I had a wonderful coach and mentor though, who told me, ‘you can do this,’ and that never happened to me again.” Since then, she has had many public performances, where she was far from frozen. She is a charter member of the St. Louis Symphony In Unison Chorus and a member of the Legend Singers of St. Louis Choral Ensemble. With these groups and as a soloist, she has performed as a jazz vocalist at The Chapel with the University of Missouri-St. Louis and Washington University jazz bands; at The Sheldon with the African Music Chorale; and on the stages of Powell Symphony Hall and the Jazz Museum of Kansas City.